Welcome to The Man Cave

A website set up to share my story, to reach out to other men going through a similar journey and to help raise awareness of male infertility and mental health.

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So on the last Friday of every month @them_ancave on Instagram I will be going live at 6.30 pm for the show ”The Man Chat” with different guest speaker every month! I don’t want this to be all serious though, so if you are easily offended then maybe take a rain check….. What you willContinue reading “THE MAN CHAT”

Six men tell their stories openly and honestly about the male perspective of fertility treatment.

Check out this Amazing Infertility Documentary guys and remember your not alone!!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uwY4Icc_l3o

The beautiful and amazing Rhian Sugden showing her support for Them_ancave and the importance of spreading awareness for Male Infertility
The lovely Sarah Mulindwa the star of E4’s The Sex Clinic showing her support for them_ancave

Thank you all for your continued Support from family, friends and even people in the Public eye with out your support none of this would be possible.

This is Julia young and she is a Fertility Nutritionist who works with couples who want to optimise their chances of fertility either naturally or via IVF by giving nutrition and lifestyle advice. Take a look at her amazing website it might even change your life! Fertility Meal Plan | Julia Young Nutrition | Weybridge

The Male Infertility Podcast

Check this podcast out guys, loads of stories from different men on their fertility journey’s; these have helped me on my journey and I’m sure they can bring you some comfort too.

Remember your not alone!!!!

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Check out the New and Amazing Podcast by the lovely and fellow ambassador for Fertility Network UK Andrea Byrne. In the Men Matters episode i share my fertility struggles and even lee Byrne joins us for a chat! “MEN MATTERS” by MAKING BABIES A PODCAST WITH ANDREA BYRNE • A podcast on Anchor

A 2013 study showed that incorporating yoga into daily life may help lower stress and anxiety, regulate body function, and support sperm production. While more focus in this area is needed, the researchers ultimately concluded that yoga can improve male reproductive health and may help prevent infertility

So with us going through our fertility journey Im hoping it will help us physically and mentally maybe it could do the same for you guys! Check out the Amazing work Alex taylor does, what you got to lose… YogAlex Flow

Guys for those of you who are unaware there is a new support group over on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/himfertilitysupportgroup

You can join the group for mutual peer-peer support, friendly chat and helpful resources. Lads dont forget your not alone. Ian stones and Toby trice will be running the group alongside the charity fertility network UK

Best Fertility now

Who are Best Fertility Now?
They are a creative community providing resources, support and advice for you on your fertility journey.
They span all forms of media to bring you a new dimension to how you access and engage with the fertility world. Check them out or give them a follow guys https://www.bestfertility-now.com/your-bfn/

Recently spoke to the lovely Natalie Silverman and Kate Davies about my journey and all things Male Infertility check it out guys https://www.thefertilitypodcast.com/male-infertility-with-kevin-button/

So for sometime one of my goals was to get some kind of Ebook/booklet in to clinics, surgeries and hospitals so that men have some form of support whilst on a fertility journey. With the help of Best Fertility Now and International Fertility Company this as been made possible. Please take a look and hopefully your journey will feel less stressful and easier.

Testing times we live in at the moment and I for one have found it physically and mentally tough I’m not ashamed to say it!

84 men a week in the UK end their life by suicide – that’s 12 a day
It’s the single biggest killer of men in the UK under 50 


Let’s break the stigma 


So Lads any of you want to join me what ever the reason the Gentlemen’s Club is back and we walking on Last Sunday of every Month opposite the storey arms.

Sunday 31st July

Sunday 28th August

Sunday 25th September

Sunday 30th October


I am proud to offer you guys my coaching service. For the past 2 years I have been working on putting a course together which is Groundbreaking and most important affordable prices. From my own experience together we will work on your physical/Mental health, Lifestyle, Motivation, Acceptance and your Future goals. Where ever you are on your Fertility journey we will get through it together and you will come to realise your life is just beginning! #YourNotAlone